A recent survey conducted by the Kinsey Institute found that nearly half of single Americans did not go on any dates in the past year, yet many report feeling happier and less stressed compared to previous relationships. The survey, which included responses from 4,952 single adults aged 18 to 93, revealed that about 25% of participants would choose to remain single even if their ideal partner appeared. Additionally, 47% of respondents reported experiencing love at first sight, and nearly one-third have been single for at least five years.
The study indicated that 48% of singles went on zero in-person dates last year, with only 11.1% going on just one date. In terms of happiness, 52.4% of respondents stated they feel better now than in past relationships, with 50.6% reporting increased confidence and 54.5% noting reduced stress. Only 16.3% of participants described themselves as actively seeking a committed relationship, while 44.7% are open to dating if the right person comes along, and 24.1% prefer to remain unattached.
When asked about the possibility of meeting their perfect match, only 45.7% expressed a desire to date that person immediately, while 29% were uncertain, and 25.3% would still choose to stay single. The survey also highlighted that 60.9% of respondents sometimes wish they did not have to be so independent. Despite the preference for single life, many still hold traditional views on romance, with 75.6% believing that romantic love can last forever and 62.1% believing in love at first sight. Common dating turn-offs included excessive phone checking during dates (38.6%) and discussing ex-partners (37%). Overall, the findings suggest that many singles view their lifestyle as a deliberate choice rather than a temporary state before finding a partner.